My wife is very often right, about a lot of things. One of the best features of having a partner is that, if you do it right, you get a person in your life who observes you closely and - as opposed to the person in the mirror staring back at you - gives it to you relatively straight. They get to observe your perspective, experiences, and takes from the outside and say: I see you, this is where you're particularly strange.
So when she said I've kinda missed a lot of obvious movies for someone who says they "like movies", I believe her. The two best examples from this year is that I had never seen Titanic or The Devil Wears Prada.
What I also realized is that this happens quite often with others - hearing "Wait! You haven't seen X?!" and, always searching for great ways to convince myself to sit down and watch a movie, I think that might be a good way to build a list for myself. Maybe it's a good one for you too.
I'm going to check these off as I watch them, and give a quick ranking of how much I "should have watched them" or if they were actually skippable, along the way.
Here's the rating system:
- Meh: Don't get the fuss.
- Fine: Glad I saw it, won't revisit.
- Should have watched sooner.
- What was I thinking missing this!?
Enjoy.
- 25th Hour
- 2001: A Space Odyssey (watched half)
- 500 Days of Summer: Should have watched sooner.
- Really liked this one. The soundtrack was nostalgic for me (2009 was my freshman year of college and many of my favorites were featured), great performances, different type of (not) love story. Led to a lot of discussion of who was right (neither of them) and how people in love make desperate choices to fill their own holes.
- After Hours
- All the President's Men
- Along Came Polly
- Amadeus
- Amelie
- Apocalypse Now
- A League of Their Own
- Bad Boys
- Basic Instinct
- Beetlejuice
- Before Sunrise
- Beverly Hills Cop
- Big
- Blade Runner (Original)
- Body Heat
- Boogie Nights
- Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid
- Chinatown
- Collateral
- Coneheads
- Cool Hand Luke
- Dances With Wolves
- The Deer Hunter
- Do the Right Thing
- Drinking Buddies
- Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
- Fast Times at Ridgemont High
- Father of the Bride
- Flight
- Friday Night Lights
- Garden State
- Get Out
- Glengarry Glen Ross
- The Godfather (I and II)
- The Good, the Bad and the Ugly
- Goodfellas
- The Green Mile
- Grandma's Boy
- Gremlins
- Groundhog Day
- Heathers
- High Fidelity
- Homebound
- How to Train Your Dragon
- Howl's Moving Castle
- The Hurt Locker
- The Iron Giant
- The Jerk
- Kicking and Screaming
- L.A. Confidential
- La La Land
- Last of the Mohicans
- Lethal Weapon
- Malcolm X
- The Master
- Michael Clayton
- Miracle
- My Best Friend's Wedding
- Notting Hill
- One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest
- Paddington 2
- Parasite
- Pretty Woman
- Reality Bites
- The Revenant
- Rushmore
- Say Anything
- Selma
- The Shawshank Redemption
- Sicario
- Sixteen Candles
- Sorcerer
- Spider-Man: Across the Spider-Verse
- Spirited Away
- Stand By Me
- Stop Making Sense
- Stranger Than Fiction
- Taxi Driver
- There Will Be Blood
- Tommy Boy
- Top Gun: Maverick
- Total Recall
- Toy Story 3
- Vacation
- The Waterboy
- The Wedding Singer
- When Harry Met Sally
- Whiplash
- White Men Can't Jump
- The Wrestler
- Zodiac